Do you ever catch yourself daydreaming about the life you wish you had? A life where you are living to your full potential, doing what you love, and pursuing your own unique dreams. But just as these thoughts begin to inspire you, fear creeps in. Questions like "How will I earn a living from this dream?" or "What if I fail?" start swirling around your mind. Suddenly, those dreams seem far from reach. But why do we fear our dreams?

The answer to that lies in our conditioning.

The Impact of Conditioning

We are social beings, living in communities. This type of living requires a coordination of behaviors that benefit the collective. Over time, societies have created structures that work well for the majority. However, living for the service of a community can make it difficult to pursue personal projects that may not have a direct impact on the community. The pursuit of such dreams is often seen as impractical or a waste of time.

As a result, we are conditioned to fear stepping out of these societal norms. We fear the unknown, the unconventional, and the road less traveled. This fear can leave us feeling stressed and anxious about chasing our dreams.

The Illusion of Reality

The fear we feel is based on conditioning, memory, and opinions. It's not based on reality. The reality is simple - where you put your energy is where things will manifest. If you invest your energy in fearing the future, comparing yourself to others, or following the path that was laid out for you, you may never reach your own dreams.

The Importance of Personal Dreams

Wanting the same dream as everyone else means you have no dream of your own. It means your dreams are not born from your original ideas. Similarly, wanting the lifestyle of someone else means you haven't truly dreamt for your own life. Following other people's dreams will make you average. But following your own dream will make you unique.

In this uniqueness, there's no competition with others. Your unique creativity births value, and this value can be sold at a price you choose because you are the only one who can offer it. There are countless platforms discussing these topics on the internet, but each brings an original spin that creates a unique offering.

The Path to Fulfillment

Following your dreams is the only way to feel truly fulfilled. Each one of us is unique for a reason. We all have something unique to bring to the table. This uniqueness is not meant to be suppressed by societal norms or conditioned fear. It's meant to be embraced, pursued, and celebrated.

So the next time you find yourself asking, "Why am I afraid to follow my dreams?" remember this - your dreams are your own for a reason. They are an integral part of who you are. Fear is just a conditioned response, not a reality. The reality is that there's a unique dreamer inside you, waiting to bring something extraordinary to the world.

Don't let fear hold you back from following your dreams. Remember, where you put your energy is where things will manifest. So, invest your energy in your dreams, not your fears. Embrace your uniqueness, step out of the societal norms, and watch as you manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.